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Why are human joys and sorrows not shared?

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  Most things in life don't go our way, and only a few can be shared with others Why Did I Want to Write This Today? The main reason is that I often notice how frequently people end up "talking past each other." It is not about who is higher or lower, right or wrong. But when it comes to emotional exchange—where feelings could flow smoothly and harmoniously between people—such moments seem all too rare. Have you ever felt, while talking to someone, as if there was something standing in the way? Words reached your lips but then slipped back down because it seemed pointless to say them. Personally, I have lost count of how many times I've experienced this, especially when trying to express emotions and feelings. It's not that the other person is at fault—it's just that, as the conversation goes on, the "frequencies" don't quite align. Even the most engaging topic becomes flat and tasteless. Add in some judgments shaped by personal values, and emo...